This may become the VIP Subscriber Area when our user community grows large enough, but for now it is FREE to all comers, so come on in!
VIP Platinum members will have virtually unlimited direct access to me during my waking hours (roughly 6:00AM-9:00PM Mountain Time, no appointment necessary on my end but if you want to establish one I will reserve the time for you) for addressing specific relationship and marriage issues (and at my discretion, possibly others as well), including my personal cell phone number. This forum is where I will post my current telephone number, any relevant scheduling information (such as if I know I'll be unavailable during a meeting or conversation with another member), etc., that might help to facilitate access for coaching purposes. It will not contain coaching transcripts or anything for members to learn from unless members who receive coaching post it, as coaching at this level is very personal and private and I will not disclose it.
Here's the place to ask me direct questions that you don't mind the rest of the group seeing. This is the last step before private counseling.
Single and newly divorced men, place your ads here after having the Ladies and achievers help you develop them in the Workshop forum. Ladies, either date them or give them a critique of their ad.
Single and newly divorced men, place your ads here. Ladies, either date them or give them a critique of their ad.
Ladies, this forum is for you. Hang out, have fun. Do what women do. Guys, you can watch, and you can ask questions, but don't join in the discussions. Observe and learn. The way you see these women interacting is how most women expect you to interact with them because we all expect everyone to be like us. We're different, and you may see things in here that will explain a lot of the flack you've caught in the past, and give you an idea of how to avoid the problem in the future.
This room is for men to learn how to talk with women as a real man talks, practicing at a minimum the three rules outlined in THE Man's Guide for Great Relationships and Marriage. Ladies, here's your chance to teach a man who to talk with a woman, and especially how to LISTEN to a woman. It's a practice area, so make new friends, and go easy on the guys while their eyes are opening. They've been fed as much nonsense about women as you've been fed about men, so it can be an enjoyable learning experience for all if you let it.
The place for singles to mix and mingle. Get your flirt on and have some fun! Reminders: disclose personal info at your own risk, and there is a live chat facility that will provide both group and one-to-one live chat. This forum is monitored, but not moderated, so play nice. ;-) Have fun!
Exclusive news of new discoveries, revelations, product recommendations, and anything else I or other members find that might improve the quality of your life and/or relationship. As related tips grow in number they will be moved to sub-forums within this forum.
This forum isn't here to tell you how to live, but how to live WELL. It contains tips on how to know yourself better and be better prepared to achieve your values once you have accurately defined them, and how to protect them once you have heroically achieved them. In a nutshell, keys to the universe-type stuff that we all wish our parents would have been able to teach us as children.
Relationships are more than just your interaction with your "significant other." Every person in your life with whom you have ongoing interaction is the other half of a relationship, and every person with whom you interact once is a candidate for a relationship, whether it is romantic, friendship, employment, business, hobby buddy, adventure partner, or whatever, and you must choose ALL relationships carefully, admitting and nurturing only those that are MUTUALLY beneficial, if you are to live a happy life, because any other kind of relationship will drain you, one way or another, even the relationship that may benefit you and not the other party, as sooner or later the imbalance will cause them to become needy, or resentful, or even retaliatory as they realize the impact of that imbalance. Contained herein are Hot Tips related to all kinds of relationships that don't appear in my newsletters and possibly expanded discussion of the most important parts that have appeared in my newsletters.
It never ceases to amaze me. The dating game gets more and more complicated by the day because there are a bunch of people making their living writing magazine articles who have to continually come up with something to say to get paid. For those who prefer a minimalist approach, keeping things simple and sticking to reality, here are some very helpful tips on how to enjoy your dating life instead of dreading it.
The mainstream media and mainstream medical industries have something in common: they say what they get paid to say and do what they get paid to do. Drug companies speak of sick people as "opportunities" instead "sick people" and focus on "treating" disease instead of "curing" disease. Occasionally we find information that exposes such dangerous attitudes and fallacies, and information about better options for you to check out. They will appear here, for educational purposes, of course.
All new Hot Tips not falling into an existing category will appear here first, and be moved if enough related tips appear to create a category.
I'm compiling chapters from newsletters and reader/client correspondence for a monster version of "THE Man's Guide" in a paper book. This material is organized by topic, one topic per thread. This will save you searching and give you a preview of my next book!
Here is the place to discuss your relationship issues if you have any that you want to discuss in public. I will try to monitor and keep the blind from leading the blind, but use at your own risk, and if anything controversial shows up and I haven't "refereed" it, PM me and we'll get it squared away.
"What's your sign?" I still remember people asking that immediately after an introduction back in the 60's and 70's. We've all been amused by daily horoscopes in the newspaper and such. There are also those who erroneously view astrology as an occult religion and denounce it without understanding, as well as those who can distinguish between fantasy and the science of cycles, radio waves, and gravity, and use astrology as an aid to decision-making with great success.
As with any discipline, for every competent practitioner there is a charlatan who makes a mockery of the discipline and a lazy dolt who scratches the surface and claims "grand master" status, so some people are understandably "turned off" of the idea. If you are someone who has issues with astrology, you are cordially invited to simply not participate in this forum. Those who are interested really don't care what you think about it and anything you have to say will fall on deaf ears. As with all other parts of this forum, you are encouraged to participate in the areas that interest you and abstain from posting judgmental or bigoted statements against other users. And as with all other sections of this forum, violation will get you banned, so if you have an ax to grind, grind it elsewhere.
For those of you who are interested in astrology on any level, we have arranged a rare treat for you. Moderating this forum will be Karen White of Divine Time Astrology, a practitioner of Vedic astrology, the most ancient and seemingly accurate of the astrological methods which originated in India. Vedic astrology is very scientific, focusing on cycles, energy flows, etc., that have been observed for longer than the average person can even imagine. I was given a personal reading as a demonstration, and I was shocked at how it aligned with events and tendencies in my own life, so if you have even a passing casual interest, you should find this forum worth your time.
Anything goes. Chit-chat, get to know each other, exchange contact info, meet singles, and anything else you want to do, as long as it is no more explicit than R-rated. No porn, no sex stories, no language you wouldn't use in mixed company. We don't need the feds reaming us on COPPA issues, even though no children are allowed here. And I was serious about anything goes. This forum is not moderated, but it will be monitored, so play nice. ;-)
Suggestions here will get priority over those in the free area, and pertain to the entire site, not just the VIP area. Same rules as the public area; post suggestions here for discussion so we can make the most of the time and resources available to keep this site running.
