Ladies, this forum is for you. Hang out, have fun. Do what women do. Guys, you can watch, and you can ask questions, but don't join in the discussions. Observe and learn. The way you see these women interacting is how most women expect you to interact with them because we all expect everyone to be like us. We're different, and you may see things in here that will explain a lot of the flack you've caught in the past, and give you an idea of how to avoid the problem in the future.